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How To Have A Soft & Sensual Feminine Summer

You've heard the girlies and Goddesses alike affirming a hot and healed girl summer; what about embodying our soft and sensual feminine energy this summer? Your soft sensual energy is renewable and inexhaustible. Soft energy sources are naturally replenished, abundant, and can be harnessed indefinitely.

So what does it mean to embody your soft sensual feminine energy?

Commonly, soft feminine energy refers to qualities and characteristics often associated with femininity that emphasize love, gentleness, creativity, safety, nourishment, empathy, play, intimacy, and emotional intelligence.

Here are some common key aspects of soft feminine energy:

  • Nurturing and empathy: Soft feminine energy tends to prioritize caring for others and showing compassion. It involves the ability to understand and empathize with the emotions and experiences of others, creating a supportive, safe and nurturing environment for self and others to unfold.

  • Emotional intelligence ~ Soft feminine energy often encompasses a high degree of emotional intelligence, which involves the ability to recognize, understand, and manage one's own emotions, as well as being attuned to the emotions of others. It emphasizes open communication and deepening into meaningful connections.

  • Intuition and sensitivity ~ Soft feminine energy embraces intuition and sensitivity as valuable traits. It encourages individuals to trust their instincts and to be aware of subtle cues and emotions, fostering deeper connections with others.

  • Sexual ( creative ) energy and intuition: Soft feminine energy is often associated with creativity and the ability to use your sexual energy as a power source. It taps into intuitive insights and allows for unconventional approaches, fostering innovation and holistic problem-solving.

  • Flexibility and adaptability: Soft feminine energy tends to value flexibility and adaptability in response to changing circumstances. It encourages all individuals to embrace change, find balance, and navigate challenges with grace, ease, and resilience.

  • Self-care, pleasure, and well-being: Soft feminine energy recognizes the importance of self-care and well-being. It emphasizes taking time for oneself, practicing self-compassion, ritualizing pleasure, and nurturing personal expansion, which can lead to greater overall nourishment and joy.

It's important to note that these characteristics are not limited to a specific gender or individual. Soft feminine energy can be embraced by anyone, regardless of gender identity, as these qualities are part of a broader spectrum of human attributes and can be cultivated by all individuals.

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Now that you understand the benefits of embodying your soft sensual feminine energy this summer, implementing pleasure rituals and practices into your day to day is imperative.


"The sensual body understands ritual so much so that overtime, dropping into your body will feel effortless." ~ Desire'


Here are some pleasure practices and rituals to indulge in this summer to keep you rooted in your soft, sensual, and creative energy:

  • Cultivate or deepen into a Sensual Yoga practice. ~ The benefits of Sensual Yoga are numerous, from increased flexibility and sexual stamina to improved mental clarity and self-awareness. Although every Yoga practice "type" is beautiful, beneficial, and supportive; common practices - especially in the West - can feel vigorous, forceful, linear, performative, and devoid of Yin energy. Sensual Yoga is the exact opposite of that. Sensual Yoga is a gentle invitation to come home to yourself, honor your cyclical nature, reclaim full autonomy over your body, increase sensory awareness, and soften into your own body wisdom.

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  • Slow down, be present, and envelope yourself in nature. ~ As a sensual and Divine being you reflect the light, beauty, and cyclical energy of nature. Nature is your home and serves as a loving invitation to play. For many of us, our summers were spent riding bikes until sunset, roller skating to the latest tunes, swimming until our fingers were pruned, and sipping on something sweet. How can you embody this same playful and curious energy this season? This summer slow down by taking deep breaths and observing the wisdom of nature.

  • Deepen into your crystal healing and pleasure practices. ~ As mentioned above, you reflect nature; and what's more natural than authentic crystal pleasure wands and Yoni eggs? Crystal healing is an alternative therapy that involves using crystals or gemstones to promote physical, emotional, sexual, and spiritual healing and harmony. Sacred is not just a buzz word. Every crystal pleasure wand, Yoni egg, and various crystal carries its on energetic properties and corresponds with particular chakras. These sacred tools are derived from mother earth herself and are here to support us on our journey of reconnecting with our bodies, softening into our sensual power, and reclaiming agency over our pleasure. It gets no better ( and no more natural ) than that!

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  • Ritualize sensual eating ~ Sensual eating is an approach to food that emphasizes slowing down, engaging all senses-taste, smell, sight, touch, and even sound-to enhance the pleasure and appreciation of the eating experience. It involves being fully present and mindful while you're eating, savoring the flavors, textures, and aromas of the food.

  • Explore self-expression and sensual dressing ~ Sensual dressing refers to a personal style of clothing ( or lack there of ;)) that emphasizes expressing and celebrating ones' sensuality, confidence, and personal taste. Select clothing and accessories this summer that make you feel alluring, liberated, sensual, and dare I say, sexy! Muse on the textures that feel yummy against your skin, patterns that reflect your erotic nature, and colors that align with where you are energetically.

Remember, there's no one way to embody and express your soft sensual feminine energy this summer. Personal choices can vary widely depending on cultural, individual, and situational factors. Your sensuality is yours to indulge in and re-define for yourself.

Take a deep breath.

So, what pleasure practices and rituals speak to you this summer?


As always, I am sending you so much love, pleasure, and ease. ~ Desire' ( Sugar and Sage Creator & Guide )


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